am the one to blame. I lived with fear, hate, and disgusted with shame and guilt. And slowly I realized that the more I hold onto things, more pain. I have grown since then. Sometimes when I get a trigger of flash backs I pour out the pain and anger that I had to suppress in my childhood through music. It is my own therapy to take away from hurt. I know that it is not an easy thing to share with people but to get over it, it is better to let it out than bottle it up inside.
Please, know you are not what happened to you, he has your past and do not give him your future. It is not your fault and, even though, this might suck up so bad right now do not let yourself give up because of him or anybody. It is not easy, I know, but somehow you will have to accept and put it behind what you cannot change to free your heart from anger, hate, and pain. You were not to blame and there is nothing you could do. You can be stronger. Don’t let the hate consume you, keep your head up high always no matter what.”
Those are the words I have been begging to hear. They gave me my courage back. True, I was tortured, not dead. I should not kill my dreams over somebody’s obsession on private parts. Society is not living my life; it cannot destroy my life or me. I will not let it. I will not let anyone force it to destroy me. I want to live and fight, at least for the sake of my future children, to teach them to respect people regardless of their gender and sexuality. I am not going to teach them to afraid; but I WILL TEACH THEM TO BEHAVE.
I quit playing the victim card, as I have not done any sin.”
This story is fictitious.
WHY RAPE IS NOT A JOKE?
For some people, it is easy to joke around about rape and abuse but they never know who has been through it. It affects someone very badly and forever changes them into a person that they never thought they would be whether they are within the community or out casted, There would be trust issues, intimation and relationship issues and can also contract HIV or other STDs, in some cases victims are injured so severely that they are unable to function normally (Some would not be having enough money to survive).
Every relationship they have will be impacted by it.
Psychological effects can range from depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), low self-esteem, and suicidal thoughts. And if that is not enough, add Social humiliation of their entire family. Victims suffer psychologically, physically, socially and economically.
SECONDARY VICTIMIZATION – isolation, be prohibited from marrying, be divorced if already married, or even killed.
If they were married, some would label their family.
Partner- Quack and sissy
Children – Bullied with demeaning words
No wonder, Rape has been used as a weapon of psychological warfare for centuries because It not only affect victims, but also their children, their family and hence the whole community and in some cases the impact can last decades and even for multiple generations.
So, rape is just not a mistake.
REPORTING CRIME:
Compilation of crime statistics, ways of reporting crime, and investigative methods vary from country to country. You can report a rape – even if you are not physically injured – or an attempted sexual assault to police by phone or at a police station. To protect your identity, you can still report the crime either anonymously or through a third party. Anonymous reporting means you do not want the police to take any action.
While third party reporting allows police to further investigate the crime and take appropriate action after evaluating the facts once the report is filed, it could stop the rapist from targeting a new victim. If any similar reports have been made on that individual, the chances of charges being filed against the accused person increase. If not, that filed report would be on your abuser's record forever. You could still report the crime to the police even if a significant amount of time has passed, but it is best to report it as soon as possible. If you decide not to report it to the police, do seek out professional counseling to help you through the emotional turmoil that the rape can have on you.
END MESSAGE:
If you are the one who is going through any kind of abuse or struggle, I hope this eBook /video gave you at least a little bit of strength. I pray that you find the "right someone" to help you. And that right someone could be you, to you, sometimes. You have the power to end it. Stay strong you will make it through. Much love to you. Best wishes.
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