Destined to Feel
As I open my eyes, I sense relative calm and see a blurred vision of red floating in the remains of the mist. I struggle to see more clearly and I discern a figure in a hooded cloak. It moves closer and closer and its warmth infiltrates the deep chill in my bones. The heat intensifies as the ruby figure removes its hood. I stare incredulously into Alexa’s beautiful emerald-green eyes. I go to wrap my arms around her, but only manage to rattle my chains. I long for her to reach out to me, but her arms remain unseen, covered beneath the robe, only her face shining through. She kneels before me and without uttering a word takes me in her mouth. She starts slowly at first before her passion escalates and she sucks hard and fast against my rigid cock. I yell in torment at not being able to touch her; there’s an intensity in her face I have never seen before, a carnal confidence in her actions — something has changed.
My brain can’t function under her mouth’s ambush as I try to decipher what is going on. She is sucking and pulling as if she is sourcing the essence of my soul. She doesn’t stop until I pump into her beautiful mouth and she swallows until I’m drained — something she has never done before. She looks up toward me from her kneeling position and I find myself staring into piercing blood-red eyes the same colour as the robe, and her lips curl into a salacious smirk.
She replaces her hood and waits on her knees with her head bowed toward the ground as two other cloaked figures emerge seamlessly from the mist — both are in black robes and float either side of her, lifting her to her feet. Her hood shrouds her face and I lose all sense of my Alexa. In desperation, I scream out her name, my body shaking violently against the chains that keep me bound, my fear for her, for us, stabbing my soul, but I’m weak and drained. I watch the three figures turn, beyond my reach, and float away through the mist along the moor. I plead and scream for her return, for her to look back toward me once more. I feel like my heart has been ripped from my limp body as I remain tethered and helpless.
‘Jeremy, Jeremy. Wake up, you’re having a nightmare. Jeremy! You’re dreaming.’
Disoriented, I realise I’ve been woken up by Sam who is still forcefully shaking my body. I notice the sheets are soaked in perspiration as I attempt to re-establish exactly where I am.
‘Oh, Sam. Right…sorry…obviously a bad dream.’ I clear my throat, as my voice is hoarse.
‘You were screaming so loudly I could hear you next door, thought I’d better check. Salina had a spare key to your room.’
‘Really? Sorry to disturb you, Sam. I’m okay. Might just grab a drink of water.’ I notice Salina standing silently in the doorway, checking if everything is alright.
‘Here, I’ll get it for you, just stay there.’
The potency of the dream still lingers in my subconscious. I’ve woken up groggy, but as I come to, so does the pain in my heart — my reality is unchanged. Alexa is dead.
‘Any update?’ There’s barely a trace of hope in my voice.
‘Not really.’ We both sound as dejected as each other. ‘We can’t access any signal from Alexa’s bracelet.’
‘That’s strange. Do you think it’s been destroyed?’
‘Well, no…that’s the thing. If it were destroyed the program would have reported it, likewise if it were somehow removed. Body temperature enables the signal.’
I look at Sam and wonder if he’s just realised what he’s said.
‘Oh, um…that didn’t come out well, did it? Anyhow, there is no signal; the last one was at the hospital in Bled.’
‘Exactly where Salina saw her dead body.’ The conclusion to be reached suddenly hits me, and I collapse in sobs on the bed, the heartbreak too much of a burden to keep up appearances any longer. Sam tries to comfort me, but I’m not ready for his sympathy and shrug him off as politely as I can. He leaves to give me some space and closes the door behind him.
Eventually, I gather myself together enough to grab a cup of coffee knowing the next call I have to make needs to be to Robert. I pause to think of the strange sequence of events that conspired to bring me into Alexa’s life once again, and which led me to contact Robert a few months ago. It was triggered by one of my more casual discussions with Leo at his cottage at Martha’s Vineyard. We were philosophising about love and life, and laughing about the fact that we were two bachelors enjoying each other’s company without the presence of women. His bachelor lifestyle was by choice — he doesn’t believe in committing to one partner for life.
Mine was due to pretty much being married to my work and Alexa being taken by some-one else.
‘The way I see it, JAQ’ — he always addresses me by my initials, Jeremy Alexander Quinn —
‘is that when I cross someone’s path it is meant to happen. If our connection is meaningful and I feel like it’s meant to be, I become involved until it is obvious that it’s no longer working for either one of us. We part as friends who respect each other and the bond we shared together; we keep our fond memories and our paths continue, more fulfilled than if we hadn’t met.’
‘And that’s always worked for you?’
‘More or less, although sometimes it doesn’t. Take my brother, Adam, for example. We share a similar philosophy but a few years back he met this guy in Australia, at a conference on landscape ecosystems. It was only a brief liaison, but it was intense for both, and Adam really believed their meeting each other was something more than coincidental. The problem is that the guy — Robert — is married with children, and although they have kept in touch ever since, Robert just can’t see a way around his existing life and doesn’t want to hurt his family.’
Something ignites in my chest. ‘Your brother, he’s gay, isn’t he?’ I ask.
‘Has been as long as I’ve known him,’ Leo replies with a wink.
‘And this Robert? What does he do?’
‘I think he’s an arborist in Tasmania but he’s English. His wife’s Australian, I think.’ I am suddenly paralysed in disbelief, as he continues. ‘Anyway, Adam can’t seem to get him out of his mind and hasn’t been able to manage a relationship since. I keep telling him to let it go but it’s hard for some…’ He looks at me knowingly.
‘You don’t mean Robert Blake?’ I interrupt him.
‘Yes, I think that’s him, do you know him?’
‘I don’t believe it! This is incredible.’
‘What?’
‘Alexa Blake! She’s his wife.’
‘Your AB? The one I’ve been hearing about forever?’
‘Yes.’ I think my heart has stopped beating.
Leo looks astonished, but then shrugs and smiles. ‘Well, see, just as I was saying. Everything will happen when it is meant to happen and not before. Strange that we’ve never had this conversation,’ he ponders. ‘I suppose I don’t talk about my brother too much, but look at that —
tonight he was on my mind and what a discovery. Who would have thought that your Alexa is married to the Robert my brother loves.’
I remember sitting there, shocked and immobile in front of Leo for quite some time. He sat quietly to let me absorb this information, knowing I was lost in deep thought. Eventually, without a word, he just patted my shoulder and went to bed. He is amazing like that. Because my brain was furiously covering every possible scenario as to how I could get Alexandra back into my life, front and centre.
There were a few things I was desperate to know:
Whether she loved him.
Whether he loved her.
Whether she still loved me.
And I was going to find out. One seemingly innocent conversation with Leo completely changed my life, filling me with hope. I could have kissed him. My existence centred on planning to get her back. Although, even then, in the back of my mind was the consideration that nothing happens by accident with Leo…
I bury my head in my hands at how such high hopes have turned into utter misery and despair.
How could things have gone so desperately wrong? My life is meaningless without her. It is wrong that I am still al
ive and she is gone. I can’t live with the knowledge that my research has taken a mother from their children. Research that need not have occurred. A mother who was so very brave, loving and giving.
A lover who was trusting, divinely sensual, so intellectually and emotionally connected and so remarkably keen to explore the ‘psychological unknown’. It’s this pioneering streak in her that I was able to tap into during our weekend together, a streak that I’m sure she doesn’t understand is such a fundamental part of her psyche. Unlike many other women I know, she had an innate desire to unravel the complexities of the world, to experiment and understand the idealistic and intellectual discrepancies that exist. She honoured me with the privilege of unlocking the core of her sexuality, which she approached with a refreshingly revolutionary zeal.
Her desire to overcome and face her fears head-on, enabled us to break right through previously unrecognised medical and scientific conventions…discoveries that I’ll never have the opportunity to discuss with her now and ones that, in hindsight, I desperately wish I’d never uncovered.
My level of distress at having to make this phone call is causing my throat to constrict as I prepare for the call. Robert. I dial the numbers, press call, and hold my breath until it goes straight through to his voicemail. I exhale in relief as I realise I’m just not ready to have this conversation and I’m certainly not going to leave such devastating news on a message. It will have to wait.
PART SIX
Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.
— Marie Curie
Alexa
As I come to, my brain attempts to process the emotion of extreme fear but it is simply impossible. I remember Josef telling me to remain calm about fifty times and no doubt this is what he’s talking about. As soon as I remind myself of his words, I relax — strange, but true. I feel floppy and fantastic, just as they said I would. Still strapped to the stretcher but my face no longer covered, I am lifted onto something else and suddenly become aware of travelling along some form of conveyor belt. I’m actually going quite fast, essentially making it impossible for my eyes to focus on anything . I close them so I can’t see the swirl of motion. I’m grateful my stomach and bowel are effectively empty; at least I’m assuming they are, as this feels like a horizontal rollercoaster, but I have the sense I’m descending, travelling deeper beneath the ground. I slow down and eventually come to a complete stop. How on earth would anyone find this place? I’m immediately covered with a warm, soft duvet that feels crisp, like it has just been near a toasty fireplace and find myself drifting off into a very comfortable sleep.
‘Dr Blake, welcome. My name is Françoise. How are you feeling?’
I open my eyes to find myself staring at a friendly-faced woman who looks about thirty, wearing a white lab coat, with thick-rimmed glasses covering her piercing blue eyes, and her blonde hair pulled sharply back into a tight bun. She stares at me intently, notes something on the clipboard she’s holding, and then her face beams with a smile waiting expectantly for my answer.
I sit up and stare in wonder at the clinical environment surrounding me. There are two types of people: those in lab coats without a hair out of place, and those in silver suits that essentially cover every part of their body except for their face. In observing this latter group, I notice that I, too, am similarly attired. I wiggle my gloved fingers and covered toes and feel the top of my head. All covered in the same soft, fine, silver fibre, something like the material of those protectors we put against the windscreen of our cars to shield the dashboard from the heat and sun, but without quite as much shine. Truly bizarre.
‘Dr Blake?’
‘Oh, yes, I actually feel quite good.’ Surprisingly good, I add silently to myself. I feel refreshed and revived, not the least bit dozy. Better than I have in ages, I reluctantly have to admit.
‘That’s good news and exactly what we were hoping. As we only have you here for a short period of time I hope you don’t mind if we start off with our participant questionnaire?’ She raises her eyebrows as her smile continues to beam toward me.
‘Right. Questionnaire. Okay then.’ I glance toward the glass of water on the side table.
‘Of course, please, help yourself.’ She waits patiently until I have finished. ‘Great, let’s get started. If you could follow me to the interview room.’
As I move to follow her, I notice the strange suit hugs the contours of my body perfectly, almost like a second skin. We leave the glass-panelled room and walk down the corridor past more silver-suited and white-coated people who smile and nod as we pass, before entering a funky, colourful room that looks perfect for an office-friendly ‘coffee chat’. Have they all been to the European school of politeness, I wonder? It’s like I have woken up midway through a really weird dream, that’s how far from reality I’m feeling at this point. It’s utterly surreal. But, I suppose, what else would I expect from the drug company that is so close to releasing a new improved version of female Viagra to the world? I am absolutely fascinated.
For the next few hours Françoise ‘confidentially’ asks me everything about my sexuality which, at first, is rather disconcerting and quite confronting: Describe your first memory of being sexually aroused.
Do erotic films/romantic movies increase your arousal?
Does intelligence increase your arousal?
Does a sense of humour increase your arousal?
Would you describe yourself as a good lover?
Do you act on your sexual desires?
Describe your sexual fantasies.
Do certain scents cause an increase in arousal?
Do certain voices cause an increase in arousal?
When do you most think of sex?
Do you have anal sex?
Does the way you dress have any impact on your arousal?
Is eye contact important to you?
Does anything in particular interfere with your arousal?
Do you masturbate — for how long? How often?
Is sexual variety important to you?
How important is trust in your sexual relations?
Does being submissive increase or decrease your arousal?
Does being dominant increase or decrease your arousal?
And the list goes on, asking about preferences for styles and positions, giving and receiving… After my initial shyness, I’m surprised how quickly I open up and comfortably answer her many questions. She’s obviously trained to make no judgements and I find the entire experience rather enlightening, particularly as I’m used to being the one asking the questions (well, up until recently, of course!). I think she must know more about me now than I ever knew about myself. Some answers I would classify as astounding for me to hear and they were my answers. Who would have thought that watching Penelope Pitstop being helpless and tied up in Wacky Races — a Hanna-Barbera cartoon series for goodness’ sake — could be a trigger for developing future sexual preferences in the bedroom, or outside the bedroom for that matter. Or all those games of ‘catch and kidnap’ we use to play as kids, having harmless fun, where I liked to be the captain of the team but always dreamt of someone being smart enough, or strong enough, to catch me. They rarely did, but the thrill of the chase was apparently firmly established as part of my developing psyche. And movies…a simple question engaged memories from decades ago of watching Nine and a Half Weeks that obviously had a profound impact on my fantasies and desires. Instead of feeling repulsed by John’s sexual domination over Elizabeth, I was completely turned on by it.
All these tiny experiences and feelings that created excitement and tension in childhood and my teenage years, add up to a sexual profile I’ve never acknowledged in myself. Jeez, maybe I’m more into the whole submissive–dominant behaviours than I imagined, although I do like to switch every so often. My god, it’s truly amazing, and a little embarrassing that I have never fully acknowledged these insights, given my prof
ession. Even my original thesis took a dissociated perspective and concluded that such behaviours are merely part of the experimentation of growing up. But could these insights point to the emergence of a lifestyle preference, or maybe even an embedded part of my overall psyche?
I’d obviously blocked this out when I married Robert, or at least buried these thoughts somewhere. Security and motherhood seemingly superseded all other psychological priorities.
There are so many things I have never thought about before such as how and why I might like certain aspects of sex more than other facets. Even more intriguing (and admittedly, gut wrenching) is how many of those aspects Jeremy provides me with to perfection. I must have been like a lamb to the slaughter for him — happily slaughtered, mind you. No, I still can’t bring myself to think like that, it’s just not true. It was more like the skilful delayering of an onion achieved through the use of a technical sharp scalpel. Reflecting on my responses to the questionnaire has reinforced to me more than ever that Jeremy has always understood more about my sexuality than I have myself. I allowed him to push my boundaries because, deep down, I wanted him to, I loved him pushing them — and it just so happened he knew exactly which ones to push. I feel my anger toward him, which built up when I was at the chateau, dissipating and I begin to acknowledge that I need to at least give him the time to explain himself and his actions. I must listen to what he has to say before I judge him too harshly. I was emotionally distraught, needing someone to blame for my abduction and he was my target. Mind you, he certainly has some explaining to do and I’m not letting him off the hook too easily. But why hasn’t he come to rescue me…and, more significantly, do I want him to save me just yet?
Dr Kinsey caused a storm in the US, and many other parts of the world, in the late 1940s and early 50s with his studies on the sexual behaviour of males and females. It’s incredible how such a significant part of our day-to-day lives can create such societal divides. Has anything much changed since then? It’s as if I have been transported into a high-tech, futuristic Kinsey Institute. I have to admit, I’m strangely excited that I’m taking part in all of this. It’s hard to believe I have landed in this innovative place and have the opportunity (am I really using that word to describe this?) to fully explore my sexuality — on my own terms — in this unique clinical environment. Without the influence of Jeremy and his alluring nature always resulting in me conceding complete power over me.