The Single's Girl Life Handbook.
By E.E. Evans
Copyright ©2017 E.E. Evans
ISBN-9781370430796
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The Single's Girl Life Handbook.
By E.E. Evans
Being single is the best time a girl can have for if she can and the best is that there is a brighter side to the joyful life of a single life. Having to be this age and being single for this wonderful time of a girl life, is when I get how much it meant that I can do so many just all by myself and not feel guilty for being a single girl. When they say 30’s is the new 20’s they don't get it wrong, I learn that being single and as they say ready to mingle is one of the best experience I have come to discovered.The Single's Girl Life Handbook I will tell you the benefits and perks of being “single and ready to mingle” and the best of all is you along the way learn to discovered that you are so much more than you could ever think possible. That love is loving yourself first just as you are.
AVOID HEARTBREAK
The ever present event of having our heartbreak.The first time you get your heart broken you think is the end of life as you know it. And the worst part is we get this crazy idea that we will never ever fall in love but once you get over that one is back in the game, we are lovable creatures that live to love and be loved. There is a bright side to being single is that no matter if you ever went through one being single gets you the chance to avoid ever having yourself feel bad because you once again fell in love with the wrong guy and once more have to go trough a broken heart. I won't tell you never to fell in love but the perks of the single life are to love and avoid heartbreak altogether and just love yourself. After all, if you love yourself every thinks is going to fall in place.
PS.Fall in love with yourself first and then love will come by himself when you are ready.
GOING OUT WITH FRIENDS AND CELEBRATE LIFE.
Friends are forever and they are the first to come. They got here first and no boy can tell you to change that because of friends before guys. They have seen you at your best and at your worst. When you are on deep until you feel drowning they were your lifesaver and no one can and will change that. Life put you these stranger in your path because she knows they will be there whenever you need them and even if you are the last friend in the group single they will still love you and will be there if they truly are your friends.
Don’t take for granted a friendship, they are the only people who will accept you just as you are no matter how crazy, moody and irrational you get. And the best of being single you get to go out with them and not caring to inhibit yourself from doing crazy stuff alone because they will have your back and have the times of their life. That is what friends are for, they are your life line to happiness.
PS. Friends no matter where, no matter when and no matter how hard life gets,they are worth more than gold.
NOT SHAVING
Is your body. Do what makes you happy. The best part of being single is not having to shave your legs. I admit that when Christmas come around is hard to keep those pair of fine looking legs all tidy up and all smooth. When being single the best feeling is to not care to shave them , let's face it is a whole lot of trouble to spend all that time making them look presentable when at the end of that workout they will go to a pair of leggings and privy them of the cold hard winter cold. So for those of you like me that hate the cold and hard work out of shaving, let's face it, save it for summer and be comfortable with yourself. There is the time when you see this cute boy giving you the eye and we break the rule and shave just to let them have a peek and after the hassle, they were not even looking at your legs. Have courage can't be free after all is your body and if not shaving for a week makes you happy, then be happy. As always you are first second and third and if there is a fourth it will still be you. Be happy just as you feel. And if being single and not caring to shave makes you, then be you.
PS. Is your body and however, you feel beautiful then let it be. No one has the chance to judge you, be you and let the world burn down and break without you to be a part of it.
DON'T HAVE TO CARE FOR HAIR STYLE
Long, shot, bob or however you feel to is your body. The best thing about being single since I was in over high school was not having to do my hair. I have long hair and is a really work out to keep all of that lioness mane tame was the worst part. I had a boyfriend who loves to run his finger through it, I hated when his finger got stuck and to him it was fun to get them out but to me was the worst that meant get up find a brush and start all over and get the mane tame once again.
I love being single because that means I don’t have to spend so many hours doing a hairstyle just because I have to. I love my hair and how it is but is hard to keep it as cool as I want. I love that I can get up in the morning and just put it up in a bun and not care if I look good or like a freak, I love that is my body and I can do with him what I want and If I want to spend hours styling or not style it at all is all up to me. I don’t let society dictate how you look. The worst thing a girl long hair can experience is to spend hours doing your hair to get to a party and can’t enjoy it afraid it will be messy at he end of the night. If you are single sure be pretty and take care of your body, but don’t let society tells you that you can't have curly hair, when you like it or have to perfect all the time. Is important to keep it healthy and looking amazing but is you want to rock out a bun then do it.
PS. Don’t let society tell you how to look is your life, be happy you are beautiful just as you are.
SLEEP IN LATE
One of the joys of life is to sleep. That peaceful and amazing experience of sleep is one of life elixirs. The worst is to get up and not be fully recharge. The pleasure of sleeping is so healthy and have so many benefits, one is that it rejuvenates your body and soul, leaving a mind clear and ready to take on the world. The single life is to sleep all you want and not care that there is someone beside you hogging all the blankets and taking all the space. I love to sleep in till late and just be careful that my baby (my dog) is all cuddle in her bed and all conformable as me. If she is comfortable then I am . I get that is great to have someone to cuddle with when is cold or on those rainy days but you have the right to sleep in until the late hours of the afternoon, but that peace of being all alone and so comfy in bed, that is something you will never get with anybody else. Enjoy it while it last because when you get that special someone and someday a baby you will give anything to have a peaceful night of sleep. And after all, it will be worth it no matter how or with who. Enjoy your space and let life do it course, looking some years younger never do some harm.
PS. Sleep. No comments
YOU CAN EAT WHATEVER YOU WANT,
WHEN YOU WANT, ANYWAY YOU WANT
The last time I had a boyfriend all the time people was telling me that I had to look after what I ate because I had to look good for him. The ironic part was that he love to eat with me all the junk food and the best part was that we were both fit and he loved that about our relationship. I love to eat, sometimes I
eat thing that people may think are gross, and I sometimes I like to eat as healthy as it can get. I don’t care if I get fat or if it to stay in line as they say. Society has this rule that if you are not thin then you are not beautiful. That is the biggest lie that is ever made. If you are thin or chubby, be happy with your body. Is the only one you will ever have so take care if him and if you like to indulge is that triple chocolate fudge piece of cake, then do it. Forget what people think, they are just envied of the pleasure you have and they are losing.
PS. Red velvet will sure be a sin. Let yourself sin as long as you stay healthy.
WORN-OUT CLOTHES ARE THE BEST
I have this thing that the more worn out clothes are I swear the best they are to wear. I being a girl love anything that makes me comfortable. I hate so much that girls have to be all perky and in style all 24 hours of the day. I respect that they would like to, but being single has let me open up to be me. I love clothes who doesn’t, but to me being is a pair of short and a tank top with some flips flops are the best outfit I can come up to be as comfortable and pretty I can be. I know that when we are in a relationship we do our best to look cool and have the guy giving us compliments but we too have to be so uptight all the time and enjoy life as best as we want. I have this T-shirt that has so many colors from so many painting since I love to do acrylics and watercolors but even when is all fade and stretch out, to me that is my favorite shirt and to me, I feel so confident that is the best piece of clothing I will ever own. So yeah, get all work up and get that little black dress wait in the closet and just lay out the comfortable ones. Life is to enjoy and being able to breathe in a shirt.
PS. Every girl needs a little black dress, and a pair of worn out jeans to relax once in a while.
NO ONE TO EXPLAIN WHY YOU GOT IN LATE AGAIN
There is one thing that we girls hate to do and that explains our self, why we have to tell someone why we were late or why we are girls. Is frustrating to explain our own life. When we are single we don't have to care if we get in late after a super great party or if we want to go out by yourself. We just don't feel like it. Is the pleasure that it brings to just do what we want, and not care what other think because they will always talk about us, but is our pride to never let it bother us. If we are free of any commitment is our right to enjoy it and not feel guilty about the choices we make.
I do have one person I do explain myself to sometimes and that is my mother, and even when she Nags me about it most of the time she has a right to know where am I a since she gave me the life to live and she raise me to love her no matter how and if she wants to know why I never got to her house when she asks me to I think she deserves even a little white lie to let her sleep at night.
PS. don't feel bad because you said no, is a right you have, and you deserve to have fun.
PETS
The only one who is allowed to be in my bed at 3 am is my adorable chihuahua and she is more than happy that I don't kick her out when that time of the month comes up. We have that little side on our heart that no one will ever dare to touch for our pets. When we are single they will not care if when cry or if we are happy because they will be with us no matter what and they keep us company at all times and most likely will never judge us, even when they look at us as if we are crazy. Pets are true angels that if in our life they ever leave us we sure will be heartbreak. And that is the only one I dare love no matter what ever happens.
PS. Pets should be forever.
MESSY A