Reasons Men Struggle with Sex
Most men struggle with their own sexuality for the some of the following reasons:
1.Recollections of childhood experiences or expressions of sex are negative and have made them feel bad about their sexuality.
2.The example of close role models such as parents, guardians or siblings who themselves struggled with sexuality.
3.The distortions of a dysfunctional sexual culture that promoted exploitation rather than intimacy…
Fatal Attachment
Since men see sex as the ultimate form of acceptance they will do whatever they can to get that acceptance. If they believe the woman must be in a good mood to have sex they will do whatever they can to keep her in a good mood. If the sexual partner is experiencing any negative emotion such as anger, depression or anxiety they sense they have to do something to fix it. Not to fix it means the chances of not having sex increases and their acceptance decreases. They feel they have to respond and respond quickly so they lie, deceive, manipulate, or find quick solutions to patch things up. As a result, men are constantly finding their moods attached to the woman they are seeking to have sex with. If she goes down, he goes down with her. Seeking a woman’s approval not only gives power of the mood in the moment but power to give worth over the length of the relationship…
Non – Intimate Sex
To be obsessed with non-intimate sex is like trying to get a gourmet meal from a garbage dump. If you search long enough you can find all the items and ingredients you might need but no matter how good you make the meal look and taste you still know the source of the dining experience. Trying to hide from a real, person-to-person sexual relationship by investing energy, time and resources into compulsive sexual behavior will leave you with the knowledge that what you have just consumed may have been pleasurable but it is not good for you. If you keep consuming garbage you will get sick…
The Greatest Sex Drug
The greatest drug for a man experiencing a healthy sex life is not Viagra but a good dose of vitality; self-confidence. Men who are comfortable just being themselves are more comfortable in a intimate sexual relationship...
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