“But you said I felt like a stranger to you,” she replied. “You don’t feel that way anymore?”

  I shook my head. “I was hurt. But you apologized, and I don’t want to hurt you. It kills me to know I’m hurting you.”

  “I never wanted to hurt you,” she said, reaching up to grab my forearms. “I don’t want to be without you, either. But… I have to admit that I lied to you.”

  I felt the blood drain from my face. “What do you mean?”

  She grabbed my hands fiercely as I lowered them from her face. “I lied when I said that the only thing that makes my morning sickness go away is eating.” She paused for a moment. “The only thing that makes it go away is looking at pictures of you and Junior.”

  My head fell back with relief. “You scared the fuck out of me,” I replied, shaking my head.

  She let go of my forearms and took a step back. “I don’t think you’re ready to trust me yet.”

  I gazed into her eyes and the pain I saw made my gut twist. I wanted to contradict her, but as usual, she was right. She tested my faith in her and I failed.

  She reached up and laid her soft hand on my cheek. “I love you so much. But I want you to—No, I need you to trust me. I need you to believe me when I say I will never, ever do anything to deliberately hurt you. Ever.” She lowered her hand and stared at my chest for a moment. “The next appointment isn’t until after the New Year. I’ll email you the information.”

  “Nope,” I responded, shaking my head.

  “What?”

  “No, I’m not giving up that easily,” I said, taking her face in my hands again. “You’re my wife. We promised to love each other for better or worse. And we’ve been through the absolute fucking worst. And yeah, I’m still a little shaken up, but I’m not giving up on us. You’re my everything, pixie. My whole fucking world. You’ll always be mine.”

  She drew in a sharp breath as I leaned in and placed a gentle kiss on her temple. Moving down, my lips grazed her cheek before landing on her ear.

  “I love you more than you can imagine,” I whispered.

  A soft whimper tumbled from her lips as I pulled my head back to look her in the eye. “I can’t imagine loving anyone more.”

  I nodded my head. “Get your stuff. I’m taking you home.”

  She didn’t say anything as I kissed her forehead and took a step back. “I can’t. I promised Drea I would housesit for her while they’re in London.”

  I let out a sigh as I began to feel that familiar feeling of the universe conspiring against us. “Okay, go ahead. Just get some rest. I’ll call Barry to see if they can get someone else to housesit.”

  She smiled. “That’s it?”

  “What do you mean?”

  Her wily grin widened as she shrugged. “I just told you I have the house to myself.”

  Now I was grinning. I tilted my head as I looked her up and down, admiring her new curves. “Wanna throw down?”

  Chapter 12

  Laurel

  The nondescript brick building in the Pearl District of downtown Portland looked exactly the same as it had the last time we were here. Our last appointment with Bonita “Bonnie” Hawthorne, Licensed Professional Counselor, had gone surprisingly well. But the fact that we never returned was not because we were magically cured, and it certainly wasn’t Bonnie’s fault. Jack and I were just too stubborn to believe that our marriage couldn’t be fixed with a stiff drink and a hard fuck.

  The receptionist, who’d flirted with Jack on our first appointment with Bonnie, made no attempt at coquettish advances this time around. I liked to think that this time, Jack and I didn’t appear as broken as we did that day. Today, we arrived at Bonnie’s office with confidence in our strides, smiles on our faces, love in our hearts, and a five-month-old fetus growing in my belly.

  We took a seat on one of the two gray couches facing each other in Bonnie’s office.

  Jack grabbed a throw pillow from his corner of the sofa and placed it behind my back. “Is that okay?”

  I nodded. “Thank you.”

  A beaming smile spread across Bonnie’s round face as she watched us from the other couch with her yellow legal pad and ballpoint pen in hand. “You two look much healthier,” she remarked. “Especially you, Laurel. I take it you’re eating again?”

  I laughed. “Oh, yeah. Anything I can get my sausage fingers on.”

  Bonnie giggled. “That’s so great to hear. I’m really happy to see you two. It’s not every day you see a couple come in after they’ve sorted things out. That’s a great portent for what I assume will be a long, happy marriage.” She wrote something down on her notepad. “So I guess we’ll start out with the usual questions.”

  Number of years we’d been together: Nine.

  Our current living situation: Happily married and on the verge of moving into a new home in Sherwood.

  Did we have any physical or mental health issues? I told her how my primary care physician believed my general anxiety disorder was getting better every day with a healthier diet and exercise regimen, as well as daily meditation. Jack informed her we were both still struggling with the grief, but his therapist and my group counseling had helped some. We planned to continue those after we moved to Sherwood. And, of course, I was very obviously pregnant, which we admitted was not planned, but we could not be happier.

  I pressed a finger to the bridge of my nose as I began to feel tears coming. “Sometimes, I feel guilty for being so happy without Junior,” I admitted.

  Bonnie sighed. “Survivor’s guilt is a powerful emotion. It can keep us from enjoying life’s simple pleasures and great victories. And it can also serve as a reminder that you are a survivor. And if we want to honor the memory of those we’ve lost, the best way to do that is to appreciate every joyous moment to the fullest. It’s important to continue to practice compassionate self-talk. What do you tell yourself in these moments of guilt?”

  I shrugged. “Probably exactly what you’d expect. ‘You’re a bad person… How can you be happy when he’s gone?… You don’t deserve to be happy.’” I paused for a moment before I repeated the worst thought that crossed my mind with overwhelming frequency. “‘You’ll never be a good mother.’”

  “It’s natural to have these thoughts, right?” Jack asked as he squeezed my hand.

  Bonnie nodded. “I want to share with you both one of my favorite quotes on grief. I love it so much, I’ve committed it to memory.” She cleared her throat and took a deep breath before she continued. “Grief instills, to varying degrees, an identity crisis, as our existing commitments are brought into sharp relief by the death of someone on whose continued existence we had depended… Michael Cholbi wrote that. He’s a professor of philosophy whom I greatly admire. Philosophy isn’t always the most accessible path to understanding emotions, but I believe he’s distilled this phenomenon into something easily understandable for grieving parents such as yourselves. The point is, you don’t have to be a philosopher to understand the meaning of his words.” She paused for a moment then looked Jack in the eye. “You both experienced a horrific trauma. In fact, studies show that the most traumatic event a human can experience is the death of a loved one. Believe it or not, the PTSD from finding your son the way you did is secondary to the identity crisis that followed the loss of your child. And in your case, Laurel, your mother and child. Your identity as a mother and daughter, and your identity as a father, were swiftly and brutally stripped away.

  “Suddenly, you no longer had to wake up for three a.m. feedings and diaper changes. You no longer had to worry about whether there were harmful carcinogens in your food that could be passed on to your baby through your breastmilk. You no longer had to separate the laundry and use baby detergent. You no longer had to call or visit your mother on a regular basis, or remember to get a Mother’s Day gift. You no longer had to call to ask Laurel if she needed you to stop and get diapers on your way home from work. You no longer had to set money aside for Junior’s college
education. All these tasks and concerns, especially the ones that sometimes kept you up at night worrying, had become part of your identity. You welcomed these responsibilities because they came with the privilege of knowing and loving your mother and child. This is why grief is so difficult for humans to process, because grief is an identity crisis. Your identities depended on Jack Jr. and Beth’s existence. Stripped of those identities, the commitments that survived — maintaining your health and the health of your marriage — suddenly felt insignificant and, at times, downright impossible.”

  “I can’t believe I never thought of it that way,” I whispered.

  Bonnie smiled. “Oh, please don’t beat yourself up over it. Grief as an identity crisis is a fairly recent idea to take root in psychology, but everyone who’s grieved the loss of a loved one — as most of us have — immediately understands the concept. Identity is so important to humans, that many of us will actually refuse to believe something that threatens our identity. Laurel, I believe you once admitted to me that you sometimes pretended that your mother and son hadn’t even died. That’s actually quite common, especially with grieving parents.”

  I chuckled as I wiped tears from my cheeks. “It’s nice to know I’m not alone in my crazy coping mechanisms.”

  “Unfortunately, you’re not,” Bonnie replied. “But I see enormous progress in the both of you. I really hope you continue to challenge the negative self-talk. You both absolutely deserve all the happiness that comes to you. As does the new baby. Congratulations, by the way.”

  I left Bonnie’s office feeling as if a ten-ton slab of concrete had been lifted off my chest. No longer did I have to wonder why losing Junior made me feel so inadequate, or why I feared I’d never be good enough. It was a relief to know I had a new tool to help me hold onto my objectivity in those moments when I felt as if I were drowning in my grief.

  Jack and I arrived at Bistro 23 in northeast Portland at a few minutes to two p.m. As the hostess left to check if our dining companion had arrived, Jack’s hands landed on my shoulders, kneading away the tension as we waited for the hostess to return.

  He leaned down and whispered in my ear. “Is it just him or is he with someone?”

  “Just him,” I replied, smiling at the blonde hostess as she walked back toward the hostess station.

  She nodded in the direction she came from. “He’s over here. Right this way.”

  We followed her through the dining area and around a corner toward the far table at the other end of the restaurant, where a fresh-faced Dylan was waving at us. He was wearing a royal-blue blazer over his usual band T-shirt — today it was The White Stripes — and a beaming smile that filled my heart with pure joy.

  “You look so happy,” I said as we hugged. “Are those new glasses?”

  Dylan flashed Jack a stiff smile as he took a seat again. “Has it been that long since you’ve seen me? I got these glasses, like, a month ago.”

  Jack held out my chair for me to sit. “I thought you two hung out a couple weeks ago.”

  I shook my head as I reached for the glass of ice water nearest to me. “I’m sorry. I must not have noticed the glasses then. Is this my water?”

  “Yes, drink up,” Dylan replied, picking up his menu. “So, are you in some sort of pregnant brain fog, or something?”

  Jack chuckled. “You could say that again.”

  I nudged him with my elbow and picked up my menu. “He’s referring to the fact that I accidentally took two showers yesterday, like, four hours apart. I totally forgot I’d already showered.”

  “She was subconsciously trying to scrub away her dirty thoughts,” Jack remarked with a grin as he stared at his menu.

  I rolled my eyes. “I take it Barley Legal hired you on full-time?” I said, motioning to the new glasses and spiffy new blazer.

  Dylan wiggled his dark-blond eyebrows. “You’re looking at the newest marketing assistant for Barley Legal Brewery. I’ll even have enough saved up to move out of Avery’s spare bedroom next month.”

  “How’s Avery?” I asked.

  “He’s great. Surprisingly cool with me bringing my dates to the apartment.”

  I wiggled my eyebrows this time. “Ooh. Tell me more about these dates. Hookups or anything serious?”

  Dylan glanced at Jack, which made Jack laugh out loud.

  “I have to use the restroom. Feel free to chat about your Grindr hookups without me,” Jack said, patting my shoulder as he walked away to find the men’s room.

  I shook my head as I turned back to Dylan. “Spit it out before he gets back.”

  Dylan swallowed hard. “Okay, this is probably a weird question, but… What am I supposed to do with my hands when I’m getting a BJ? I don’t feel comfortable putting them on his head. That feels like I’m forcing him, or something. That’s not me. So what do I do? Help.”

  I laughed. “Well, first of all, whatever you’re doing, I hope you’re being safe.”

  His eyes widened. “Uh, yeah. Of course. So what do I do with my hands.”

  I tried not to laugh. “Well, I don’t know what other people do, but when Jack goes down on me, I usually… pump my fists in the air and yell, ‘Woohoo! Yeah!’”

  Dylan shook his head, but I continued, undeterred.

  “And sometimes I just wave my arms in the air like those inflatable tube men at car dealerships.”

  He pressed his lips together to keep from laughing.

  “Oh, oh, oh. Oh, yeah,” I continued. “Sometimes, I just clap my hands and giggle. But when I’m giving Jack a BJ, he usually lifts free weights. He likes working on his bicep curls. Sometimes, he’ll try patting his head and rubbing his belly at the same time. But our standard go-to is usually just jazz hands.”

  “You’re evil!” he said unable to hold in his laughter. “I hate you!”

  I reached forward and squeezed his hand. “I love you, too. Just sit back and enjoy.” I took another sip of water as Jack approached the table. “So how’s everything with your mom?”

  Dylan shrugged. “Not much better, unfortunately.”

  I gave his hand another squeeze. “She’ll come around. And if she doesn’t, I’m more than happy to adopt you.”

  “We’ll definitely have enough room for you at the new house,” Jack replied.

  Dylan’s eyes lit up. “When will the new house be ready?”

  I glanced at Jack, as he was the one who knew all the dates and measurements.

  “Should be complete by early July, about a month before the baby comes.”

  A sly grin spread across Dylan’s face. “Perfect. You guys can expect to see my pasty body chilling by your pool all summer.”

  I laughed. “We actually have a meeting with the architect today. I’ll make sure to tell him we need an enormous sunblock dispenser built into the deck… for my adopted son.”

  As Dylan and Jack laughed at my comment, I had a sobering realization. This was the first time I had made a joke about parenthood since Junior’s death. I laughed along with the two most handsome men in my life without guilt or shame, and only a tiny bit of sorrow.

  August 13, 2018

  “I can’t find them!” I shouted toward the glass double doors leading into the master bath. “I can’t lose my engagement and wedding ring the day before our anniversary. Please help me find them!”

  Jack came out of the bathroom in boxer briefs and a gray T-shirt, pulling a toothbrush out of his mouth. “Pixie, I already told you to stop stressing. It’s not good for the baby. We’ll find the rings tomorrow. It’s almost midnight.”

  I pressed my fingers into my eyelids and rubbed my eyes. “I’m so anxious right now. I have a bad feeling the baby’s coming early. I need those rings, Jack. Please.”

  “Are you in pain?” he asked, glancing at my enormous belly.

  “No… I mean, I’m really uncomfortable. I feel like my dinner still hasn’t digested and my back is hurting a little. Please help me find the rings. I feel like it’s bad luck to celebrate our
anniversary without the rings.”

  “Baby, we had dinner six hours ago,” he said, rubbing my lower back. “Are you feeling sick?”

  I shook my head. “You’re not listening to me, Jack. I want to find my rings. I need to find my—” My mouth dropped open and I grabbed onto his bicep as I was hit with a contraction. “Oh, God. Oh, God, I’m going into labor.”

  “Oh, fuck,” Jack muttered, guiding me toward the bed. “Sit down. I have to get dressed. Just… don’t move.”

  “Oh, my God. Jack, I need my rings.”

  “Not now!” he shouted back at me as he disappeared inside the walk-in closet.

  I kneaded my fist into my lower back as I whispered to myself, “How could I lose my rings? I haven’t even worn them for a month. Stupid sausage fingers. I know I put them in the jewelry box. Wait. Did I put them in the jewelry box? Oh, God. I can’t remember where I put them. I can’t believe I lost my rings.”

  Jack rushed out of the closet fully clothed with the canvas weekender bag I packed for the hospital weeks ago. “Baby, forget about the rings. Can you walk down the stairs? Do you need me to carry you?”

  I laughed. “As if you’d be able to carry me in this condition.”

  He dropped the bag on the floor and, as if I’d dared him, scooped me up in his arms. “I’ll come back for the bag.”

  I held tightly to his neck as he carried me down the stairs and carefully set me down just outside the door leading into the attached garage. Opening the door, he led me to the passenger seat of the new Subaru he bought for me for safety reasons. He raced inside and was back with the bag in seconds. We were pulling into the hospital parking lot at Kaiser Westside Medical Center thirty-one minutes later.

  My fourth contraction hit as Jack pulled up in front of the hospital entrance.

  “Stay there. I’ll get a wheelchair,” he said rushing out of the car and into the sliding doors, emerging seconds later with my rolling chariot and a hospital employee in a navy-blue cardigan.